Thursday, 26 July 2012

Love Takes Hostages !

I read this somewhere...

“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain..”

Ii felt its a bit incomplete. The end. If love is so sagacious, why does everyone fall in it? Why is it that it consumes everyone? It is that beautiful feeling that dissipate everywhere. And those who say that they have never been in love, they have been in it the deepest. Just they support the first para within them.

That real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain stands nowhere in front of the-ever-so-magnanimous-feeling !

Love is not a disease, it is a cure to many. When you find that one person, to whom you can give in and give upon everything, world seems beautiful. Yes, you might hear violin playing and birds chirping and everything musical around you. You may see the dullest of roads be flooded with roses and smallest of drops as ocean. So? Is that bad? NOPE !

Why not fall in love just because you are afraid of getting hurt? It says you give them a piece of you. Why forget you get a piece too. Memories worth lifetime. Don't be afraid to get hurt. Lucky are the ones who don't but even if you do, you can be sure that someone is still out there for you. You just made a wrong choice. Learn from it and do good next. You, one day, will surely find 'THE PERFECT ONE'!

Fall in love, make someone fall in love with you. Because trust me, it is a beautiful feeling :)

1 comment:

  1. Seems you gave someone a piece of you:-)
    you're right... Many don't want to fall in love as they don't afford to get hurt anymore or don't hurt others too..
    Why not that one person, to give in and give upon everything, be a close friend or a most beloved, other than a lover..?